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Born in the Empire State, grew up in Harm City, lived in Wonderland for 3 years, next stop… ?
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Keeping my mouth shut
It’s been a recurring topic in the last few days, albeit one that has usually been in regards to other people. But I’m starting to think I need to work on it a little bit more, myself. It popped into my head last night, as I was skyping with my father. He mentioned something that […]
This transient fucking place
April 18, 2012
I was having a talk with Marco the other night about how the newest generation of adults (this probably includes people my age, but I’m not certain) is much more ok with the idea of moving around and not living near their families. He listed his siblings as examples, and we were talking about how […]
On not being possessive or jealous of your friends
April 6, 2012
Something that I’ve become really aware of since moving away to another country is the way I sometimes feel, or often DON’T feel about my friends and their other relationships. A younger me would be majorly upset to see people who I consider my best or closest friends getting closer to other people once I’m […]
I am getting really tired of seeing my best and most wonderful friends getting treated like shit by some idiot guy. Or girl.
January 9, 2012
If it weren’t for the amazing friends and love that I have, I would have lost all faith in humanity a long time ago. I’ve been treated like shit and been in emotionally abusive relationships, have had people make me feel bad for not being what they wanted, etc. We all have to go through […]
You won’t see me this mad very often, or, Friending etiquette and pointers for ungrateful mercy fucks.
July 2, 2011
I don’t get angry (at anyone other than myself) that much anymore. My life is pretty laid back, in a Big Lebowski kind of way. I have mostly let go of past hurts, or am working through them, and I don’t wish ill for anyone. But today I am pretty angry. And not just angry […]
I am completely secure in our relationship.
June 16, 2011
I’m writing this because I am getting REALLY tired of social networking. I’m tired of the farce of friendship. It’s just an older version of the yearbook at the end of the school year. You have a bunch of phone numbers from people who you only half-know or -like, and you feel bad for not […]
a note to guys (and girls): if you don’t drop, you don’t get head. Simple math.
May 4, 2011
My friend shared this link on FB and I think it should be shared, too. I dated a guy that refused to go down on me. And I was with him for many years, which were full of OTHER people going down on me, and in the meantime, I stopped giving head to said guy. […]
On being the other woman
February 15, 2011
I didn’t know that’s what I was. And sadly, I should have known. I met him when I walked into his store to apply for a job. He took the applications from me and my friends, and he was the one to call me and offer me an interview. I took a higher-paying job somewhere […]
German Lessons: It wasn’t always legal to live with your significant other before marriage in Germany
January 31, 2011
This also gets into the idea of prostitution, which I’ll explain later. I learned this from the same student I was talking to about the subject, btw. Apparently, it wasn’t until the mid- to late-seventies that people who were unwed could live together. As a little background, Germany has a lot of laws that are […]
Something I learned from a movie, put into practice
January 29, 2011
Maybe I didn’t really ‘learn’ it from the movie, maybe it was something I already knew… but since the situation had never presented itself to me personally, seeing it in a movie reiterated what I already knew: never stay with someone who isn’t sure that you’re IT. And by ‘it’, I mean words like ‘awesome’, […]
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